Reference books are mostly required for providing you with ample amount of questions for each topic, and reading certain topics in detail. Keeping this in mind, it is quite easy to make a choice for each subject.
Physics:- This subject requires you to practice a lot of numericals, so you definitely need an extra book. I used to solve Pradeep for physics (mcq’s given in the end and exercise questions) as well as hc verma (do it for select number of chapters or the topics having high weightage, and don’t use it in last few months). This gives you ample of questions to solve. Another famous book is DC Pandey, but i don’t know much about it personally.
Chemistry:- The books are useful in numericals and organic chemistry, and for the other chapters, they provide explanation for various topics. You can follow OP Tandon or Pradeep etc. I personally followed pradeep.
Biology:- Now here, i would strongly emphasize that there is no need at all to use any reference book. Just stick to NCERT and coaching modules. Trueman, campbell and blah blah blah….. Many will say that you may need them for AIIMS if not NEET, complete nonsense. These books are just not designed to be used by a NEET aspirant.
Best of luck 👍💯