What are the steps of counselling relationships?

Few steps here I recommend that I always use for my clients and those are very helpful.

1. Understanding behaviors of both the persons or the persons involve in relationships
2. Taking notes of those behaviours
3. One on One Discussion
4. Combined discussion
5. Finding hidden agenda by looking into their words and body language.
6. Giving Practical steps to change their behaviour instead of just giving advice in most cases if we give advice clients will not follow due to ego problems.
7. Using follow up methods by looking into their changing behaviour after one or two weeks.
8. Congratulating them for their future relationship