Hi i am in exact spot as you, with a difference being that i am from general category.
My parents and teachers have great apirations from me. They dont realise it, but it has brought me to a tight spot. I dont really care what my teachers want, but my parents are the one i care about. They are not entirely wrong to expect good marks, it just states that like any normal parents they are expecting high grades from their kid. But my dreams are very different. They support me in my dream to become a good docotor. But according to them i can give neet next yr, but not boards. However i have though for many days. And finally decided that i will give my 100% to neet only. Boards syllabus is not that much differnet from neet. I can prepare for boards in febraury and march. It should be enough for getting 92-97%. I know it sounds like i am really overconfident, but thats who i am, i am confident i have the capabilities to achieve this. On the top of that i am a PCBM student (with PE too). You can imagine.
Boards are important. But neet is as well. Anwyays all i am saying is choose wisely. Goodluck
Note- i have not told my parents about my resolve, i am sure they wont accept it and ask me to drop neet and just prepare for boards.