Timings
If you look at it timing-wise, then yes, hostels are a little strict regarding that. The curfew time for freshers is 9:00 pm and for seniors it’s 9:30 pm. You HAVE to be inside hostel after this time otherwise you can face penalties. But, if you want to enjoy the night life of VIT’s campus, then there’s a way around this too. After you get into any club/chapter/team then you can apply for night slips which allow you to stay outside of your hostel (still inside the campus though) till 1:00 am.
Wardens
There cannot be a definitve answer on this. It’s like asking, “How is every person in a particular country?”. It varies, some wardens are super chill whereas some are super strict. Anyway, you won’t have much interaction with wardens unless and until you commit some actions which would invite their attention.