I had a young female student approach me with hesitation , and here’s how that conversation went .
She was trying to work out her schedule at school and was struggling with balancing her both school and social schedule .
She tried to explain that seeing a counselor was a waste of time and she can “fix” her schedule issues on her own .
So after about 30 minutes of her taking and me listening , she finally confirmed my suspicion . She was embarrassed to seek out counseling .
That may be the answer to your question , and sometimes we don’t know the answer , but ourselves only know why